So once you eventually start down this journey and begin taking on clients you're going to be able to
identify for yourself.
Three in different types of mindset that people are going to come to you where one type of mindset is
going to serve people.
The other two types of mindsets if they are inflexible or flexible in the mindsets are not going to
serve them at all.
No this this this lesson I like to refer to as the wise mind and the wise mind is a balanced mind to
the wise mind is a mind that understands its goals understands why it does the things that it does.
It is able to reflect is able to embrace a motions but it's also able to manage emotions is one that
doesn't focus solely on intellect or reasoning is one that finds the balance between the two.
And then when we're talking about a life balance of what we're talking about is developing our wise
mind because the quality of our lives for most people was going to be determined by how balanced their
life circumstances are.
But what I'm going to suggest to you here is an alternate way of looking at this.
The quality of your life is going to be based upon how balanced we are mentally under more snugly.
So think about that one.
No.
3 different types of people will potentially come to you once you open up your practice.
You've got your website you've got your social media is you have your your Perhaps registered on a few
friends directories or something like that and I'll give more information on all that practical kind
of stuff later on in the course.
Are they going to come to you with their stuff with the issues with the problems.
Some people are going to come to you where they live pretty much 100 percent of the time in the motional
parts of their minds where they're most of the time completely unaware of what they're thinking.
They're aware of how their thoughts influence their feelings.
Therefore I assume that because they're feeling happy or sad Those days are happy days or some days.
Remember the model were shared with you earlier on.
We looked at facts feelings and Faith didn't we.
Well this is kind of emotional people.
People who live lives an emotional part of their brains are generally living this up and down a motional
roller coaster and they're going to come across many people I guess the go for you.
The reason I'm sharing this lesson this insight is to help you define what it is you're actually working
towards as you begin communicating and interacting with those that you go to work with.
This is you know Autumn in go developing the balance between the reasonable mind and the emotional power
of your mind and developing more of a wise mind where they just become more aware of who they are i.e.
they respond to life the way in which they do.
And there's the also fundamentally want so many people in life are governed driven by their emotions.
Those people are going to find very very difficult to trust or rely on because most of the time they'll
make a motion Ali led decisions.
These people will generally be quite reactive opposed to proactive linehan's people who live on the
other side of the fence.
People who live most of the time in the reasonal in the reasonable or the rational part of the mind.
These people generally are a lot more intellectual.
They're generally they may come to for more information.
They want you to explain to them why they are the way that they are so they can understand on a head
level.
So the problem with deaths is that even people who've taken this course so far people who operate more
and more spend more time and the reasonable power of their minds are the rational or the other more
analytical part of their minds will most likely have hated that last core values section because when
we're talking about core values it's completely irrational it's completely unreasonable because there's
no rhyme or reason to it quite values are messy they're all over the place.
Whereas people that live in this part of their mind like order structure definitive answers they like
to know whether things are black or white.
And when it comes to life coaching there is no black void because all people are completely unique.
So the reason they share all this with you is just to give you more of a goal of what it is you actually
want to be working towards in the context of any coaching relationship that you entered into.
Understanding the difference between the emotional part of the mind and the reasonable reasonable part
of the mind will allow you to identify where it is.
You want to be good.
People who live too far on the left are going to be more overly analytical which poses a huge limitation
and restriction fear.
Whereas people who live too far of the rides on the emotional side again.
Although completely inconsistent lives up and down like you or you.
Most of the time.
Wisdom is about establishing our balance.
No to give you a much deeper insight.
Understanding Yes there is a boot.
That's that's pretty much been sorely assigned to explaining this very phenomenon.
It's called the chimp paradox.
This book deals with death.
I didn't fully subscribe to everything that the book went on to discuss but the first four sections.
I fell a phenomenal job at explaining the two different types of mind that we have in a very very easy
to understand way.
No I'm going to make that recommended read this part of the course for those who perhaps are more in
or reasonably minded who want to go off and do more study to better understand.
And if that is you that I'm going to strongly encourage you to do that right now before moving on with
the rest of the course.
Reason being is if we can understand how our minds work on a biological level slightly more effectively
than this is going to enable us to empathically really to other people far more effectively.
Now I've just thrown in a new word here empathically relate empathically relate is where we understand
people well we might not always understand them.
We can appreciate where they're at.
We can appreciate without necessarily understanding which some people might express as extending someone
grace it makes sense in the past.
We've talked about how people don't always do the things that they do for the reasons we would naturally
be inclined to think of we do them all.
This is because if we operate more from the emotional part of our mind well we're not going to understand
those operate more and the reasonable power of their minds and vice versa.
In five people who are more emotionally led will sometimes feel quite intimidated by those who operate
in this part of their lives and vice versa.
So you see if we as life coaches can strive to develop wise minds then guess what we can stand right
in the middle and then empathically relate and be able to understand Borth.
So this is all for us but it's also giving us a framework to better understand those who are eventually
going to be coming through our doors.
So any additional material section of attached the link to the to the book of just recommended the chimp
paradox.
And there's also our mini work sheet.
I'm going to encourage you to print off and again build this into your repertoire of life coaching resources.
One that you can use upon yourself or is one that f you feel appropriate you can share with the clients
that you eventually want to serve.
This makes sense.
I'll look forward assuming this for you.